Getting your ex back: know what makes him/her tick
You need to know what makes your ex tick. You may have failed to do that in the past, but with reconciliation, you have another chance. It can make the difference in your renewed relationship with him or her.
When you’re playing hard to get with your ex, you need to know that they are appealing enough to go after. You don’t want to be predictable and have your ex knowing what you are going to do and say. People in that category dont’ provide a sense of mystery and are not a challenge for the ex that is chasing him or her.